Come Out of your Shell

This blog entry on Dumb Little Man - Tips for Life really makes me uncomfortable. It’s all about creating “unshakable confidence”. When reading this, I feel like the Emperor with New Clothes and everyone sees through to my deepest insecurities. What’s wrong with me? I should feel better that other folks feel the same way I do. After all, I’m preaching how much we have in common as people working in IT.

The secret is - I don’t want to think about being vulnerable. I want to believe that I’m naturally comfortable with public speaking. I want to believe that I’m always ready to meet someone new or try something different. I believe I’m smart enough for the job. I believe my natural self is better than any well-thought-out presentation I can make of myself. Yes, I study for interviews. No, I don’t worry about making a first impression because I’ve already planned for it.

My impression of this article has absolutely nothing to do with you. I don’t even recommend reading it, unless it sounds interesting to you. My reaction is all about my personal insecurities locked up inside my own head. Keep this in mind the next time someone gives you their opinion on something, anything. Whether it be the car the boss drives or the proposed changes to the network remember - it has nothing to do with you. Make up your own mind and act accordingly. Personally, I choose to always leave the house clothed in the morning. I’m vulnerable enough if you take the time to look real close. Aren’t we all?

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