I don’t know about the fixed, but for the remote desktop issue, try this
right click on my computer then click on properties, get the remote tab, and there make sure that the “allows users to connect remotly to this computer” is checked.
if this also didn’t work, then open a command prompt and type the following “telnet 127.0.0.1 3389″ from the web server, and tell me what exactly happens.
Another thing, did u install Windows Server 2003 Service Pack 1? i hear that it contains a firewall, and this might have been configured to block the rdp protocol.
For the asp problem, try this, open Add/Remove Programs, then Add / REmove Windows components, double click on “Application Server”, double click on “IIS”, double click on “WWW server”, and there if the “Active Server Pages” is unchecked, then check it and keep saying ok, if its already checked, then uncheck it, say ok until you close the Windows Components wizard, then go to it again and check it.