I think your best option for this is to add a workstation entry to your QCTL subsystem, then when you connect remotely use that workstation for your session. Something like this :-
ADDWSE SBSD(QCTL) WRKSTN(RMTWS*)
Then when you connect remotely use a device name beginning with RMTWS and you should get a session in QCTL. You could also add the same workstation entry to QINTER, then you will get a session in QINTER if it’s active, or one in QCTL if QINTER is not active.